Insecurities inside you

Understanding that life is not easy and no one said it's easy too,

there are times you have insecurities inside you.

Whether it's about work, future, relationship or assets,

you need to learn how to deal with them.

If you cannot control them, they will control you instead.

Recently, I got a lot of questions from new friends asking if

I am scared of any insecurities as it seems to them that I am so determined.

Of course, I do but I hide them,

and try to get myself prepared as much as possible.

I'm not that strong and there are still times I cry, honestly.

I have been receiving many random messages recently.

Some of them shown the senders had interests in writing 

and wanted to share something too so we talked.

I gave them my time, until I am certain they will never deliver me anything.

Honestly, I do not mind chatting but it would be great 

if they could be straightforward from the beginning.

Some of them are people I talked to before and they just became single again,

I believe their insecurities lead them to me as they know I'm still available.

Being single is not bad. A single status may be inferior due to 

a higher tax rate and future insecurities but 

being single is definitely better than being with the wrong person.

As a perfectionist, a single mom, a full-time employee, and an immigrant,

there are several hats I'm wearing each day.

And not only my self-insecurities, I sometimes 

also need to deal with other people's insecurities too.

I was drained by random things before and now I feel like 

I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet again.

I do what I can do and I don't response to toxicated persons.

It's not because I dislike them but I need to protect my own feelings as well.

When you face problems, the best way out is to find the way out.

When you face insecurities, pause, take a self-assessment,

develop trust and go with your best practice.