A Memo A Day

Understanding that life is not easy and no one said it's easy too, there are times you have insecurities inside you. Whether it's about work, future, relationship or assets, you need to learn how to deal with them. If you cannot control them, they will control you instead. Recently, I got a lot of questions from new friends asking if I am scared of any insecurities as it seems to them that I am so determined. Of course, I do but I hide them, and try to get myself prepared as much as possible. I'm not that strong and there are still times I cry, honestly. I have been receiving many random messages recently. Some of them shown the senders had interests in writing  and wanted to share something too  so we talked. I gave them my time, until I am certain they will never deliver me anything. Honestly, I do not mind chatting but it would be great  if they could be straightforward from the beginning. Some of them are people I talked to before and they just became single again, I ...

It was a long holiday last weekend (well, actually just 3 days) and I did enjoy every single minute of my time. I got a chance to speak with some intellectuals and the conversations brightened my vision. It was about the religion. Yes, mainly on Buddhism and Christian. Note: This is not a religious topic. There is nothing that is truly right or wrong. Nothing is better and nothing is worse. We just shared about how different we see or perceive things. I do appreciate all religions and I can be friends  with people from other religions without any problems. He shared me about his life story. His sister got sick due to a stomach cancer  so his father came from Burma to visit the daughter. The father, later on, got sick with stomach cancer as well and he passed away during his visit. (I'm sorry) My friend was so sad and he was mad at everything at the time, until one day he realized that he was already blessed enough  having a chance to meet and greet with his father...

You are having less and less time every single day. You will not know when your last day will be. Life expectancy in the States is approximately at 78.93 years.* That means you have 28,810 days in average for your lifetime. They say each new day is a new opportunity, but don't wait until tomorrow as it is not a promise. You may not have the full 28,810 chances in your life pocket. No one knows if today will be their last day or not. It's better to make the most of the present. Where do you stand on your bell curve life graph? Are you in the first stage where the graph is still going up? The middle stage where the graph is pretty stable? Or in the last stage where everything slows down for you? Determine yourself so you see how many chances in life you still have left. If it's about your goal/dream, wake up and pursue it. If it's about your family/people, make up with them  before it's too late or they leave you. If it's about your anger/boredom/tiredness, take i...